Let it make sense?

Since When Did Parenthood Require an SUV?

I love sedans.

They are compact, cute, easy to drive, and usually use less fuel than SUVs. I admire SUVs, and I have driven them before, but I still prefer my sedan. My two children have enough room, and the car meets our needs. Why should having children automatically mean that I need a bigger vehicle?

People often have strong opinions about how another person should live. If you are a parent, they tell you what kind of car you should drive. If you own something modest, they explain why you should upgrade. If you are content, they may even search for reasons why you should not be.

But there will always be a reason to want something bigger, newer, or more expensive. If we allow every outside opinion to direct our choices, contentment will remain beyond our reach.

Children need safety, food, healthcare, attention, guidance, and love. They do not measure a parent’s devotion by the size of the family vehicle. A responsible choice is one that safely serves the family and fits the family’s circumstances.

There is nothing wrong with owning an SUV. There is also nothing wrong with genuinely preferring a sedan. One person may value extra space and height, while another values a compact car that is easier to handle and uses less fuel. Neither person needs to defend a sensible personal preference.

We do not have to respond to every opinion. When you are walking a mile, you cannot stop to confront every dog that barks along the road. Sometimes wisdom is continuing your journey without allowing every voice to delay you.

Enjoy what you have. Choose what works for your life. Let other people make their choices, and give yourself permission to make yours.

A sedan can carry a family. It does not have to carry everyone else’s expectations too.